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How do I control my tongue? What did the scholars say about speech?

Al-Ghazali gave the tongue its own book. He counted twenty-odd sins that issue from it — from backbiting to sarcasm to excessive joking — and traced each back to its root in the heart.

7 passages from 4 books in the library

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The classical approach.

These passages are drawn from 4 books by Imam al-Ghazali and Ibn Battuta — part of the classical Sunni tradition that carries over a thousand years of reflection on the Qurʾān, the authentic Sunnah, and the consensus of the early community. Nothing below is a paraphrase. The words are the scholars' own, translated from the original Arabic manuscripts.

Read them closely. If a passage doesn't sit right, open the full book in the library and listen to the chapter around it. Context in the classical tradition is everything.

Cover of Book 35: The Book of Divine Unity and Trust in God
Book 35: The Book of Divine Unity and Trust in God
Imam al-Ghazali · Ihya' 'Ulum al-Din

11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
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  1. "So neither does his hand resemble hands, nor his pen resemble pens, nor his speech resemble other speech, nor his writing other writings."

  2. "However, it can weaken and become unstable, requiring reinforcement through speech or learning to protect these beliefs."

Cover of Book 25: Condemnation of Rancor and Envy
Book 25: Condemnation of Rancor and Envy
Imam al-Ghazali · Ihya’ ‘Ulum al-Din

11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
Reviving the inner life of Islam through the Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm al-Dīn — one of the most influential works ever written in any religious tradition.
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  1. "This is the sin of envy itself, not to mention how envy leads to discord, denial of truth, and letting loose the tongue and hand in vile acts in satisfaction from enemies."

  2. "You might wish that his tongue would be silenced, so he would not speak, or that he would fall ill, so that he would neither teach nor learn."

  3. "In terms of religion, when you envy someone, you wrong them, especially if your envy leads you to backbite, defame, or expose their faults."

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