What did al-Ghazali say about marriage?
Al-Ghazali treated the nikāḥ as a station of worship — with its benefits, its dangers, and its specific demands on both spouses. His chapter is bracingly direct.
10 passages from 6 books in the library
Al-Ghazali treated marriage (nikāḥ) as a station of worship with real benefits and real dangers, and wrote about it with bracing directness. In his Book of Marriage he counsels that the proposal be made known to the woman herself — especially fitting for a virgin, as it fosters affection — and elsewhere in the Iḥyāʾ he names marriage as the remedy when self-restraint and fasting do not suffice, noting how the early Muslims valued it. He also warns against its abuse, condemning a husband who mistreats his wife to force her to surrender her dowry.
Drawn from the classical sources below — in the scholars' own words.
The classical approach.
These passages are drawn from 6 books by Imam al-Ghazali — part of the classical Sunni tradition that carries over a thousand years of reflection on the Qurʾān, the authentic Sunnah, and the consensus of the early community. Nothing below is a paraphrase. The words are the scholars' own, translated from the original Arabic manuscripts.
11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
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"Marriage is described as a type of servitude, where the wife must obey her husband in all"
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"One day he awoke and declared, Marry me, marry me, and so they arranged his marriage."
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"Among the etiquettes, the husband's matter should be presented to the wife's hearing, and if she is a virgin, that is more appropriate and conducive to affection."
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"If marriage or intercourse were avoided for this reason, it would be sinful not because of refraining from marriage or intercourse"
11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
Reviving the inner life of Islam through the Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm al-Dīn — one of the most influential works ever written in any religious tradition.
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"protect by marriage bonds, or was not forbidden from marriage to him. He was the most generous of people."
11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
Reviving the inner life of Islam through the Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm al-Dīn — one of the most influential works ever written in any religious tradition.
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"A husband might mistreat his wife, making her life difficult, forcing her to waive the dowry to escape."
11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
Reviving the inner life of Islam through the Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm al-Dīn — one of the most influential works ever written in any religious tradition.
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"against God. It is said Lot's wife would inform about the guests, and Noah's wife would inform"
11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
Reviving the inner life of Islam through the Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm al-Dīn — one of the most influential works ever written in any religious tradition.
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"do not suffice, marriage is the remedy. Early Muslims valued marriage and arranged marriages"
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"for several days, Sa'id learned that Abdullah's wife had passed away. Sa'id offered to marry"
11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
Reviving the inner life of Islam through the Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm al-Dīn — one of the most influential works ever written in any religious tradition.
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"nor should a husband sell a wife's property, or a parent the child's property, or the child"
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