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How do I deal with anxiety and worry as a Muslim?

The Prophet ﷺ had a specific duʿāʾ for grief and anxiety. Ibn al-Qayyim wrote that dhikr dissolves it. The classical prescription is practical — and rooted in tawakkul.

10 passages from 6 books in the library

The classical scholars treated grief and anxiety as conditions the heart can work through rather than merely endure. Drawing on al-Ghazali's writings on Fear and Hope and the Remembrance of Death, the tradition reframes a measure of sorrow as spiritually useful — sadness over past sins that turns the heart toward Allah and away from heedlessness of the world. The page notes that Ibn al-Qayyim taught that dhikr, the remembrance of Allah, dissolves anxiety, and that the Prophet ﷺ had a specific supplication for grief and worry.

Drawn from the classical sources below — in the scholars' own words.

Where the answer comes from

The classical approach.

These passages are drawn from 6 books by Ibn al-Qayyim — part of the classical Sunni tradition that carries over a thousand years of reflection on the Qurʾān, the authentic Sunnah, and the consensus of the early community. Nothing below is a paraphrase. The words are the scholars' own, translated from the original Arabic manuscripts.

Read them closely. If a passage doesn't sit right, open the full book in the library and listen to the chapter around it. Context in the classical tradition is everything.

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Volume One
Ibn al-Qayyim · Madārij al-Sālikīn

14th century · Damascus, Syria
Madārij al-Sālikīn — the classical map of the spiritual journey — and a vast body of work on the soul, love, the traps of the ego, and the nature of the heart.
More on Ibn al-Qayyim → · Provenance →

  1. "In such a case, there is no reason to grieve for the absence of grief. The author of "المَنَازِل" states that the elite are not in the station of grief, for grief is a loss, and the elite are people of experience. If he means they should not deliberately seek grief, he is correct. But if he means that grief does not occur to them, that is not the case, as grief is a natural necessity, though it is not a station."

  2. "Its absence is a deficiency, so one grieves for the loss of grief, just as one weeps for the loss of weeping and fears the absence of fear. This is debatable, as grief for the loss of grief is only commendable when one is preoccupied with praiseworthy joy, which is the joy in اللّٰه's grace and mercy. In such a case, there is no reason to grieve for the absence of grief."

Cover of al-Akhlāq wa'l-Siyar — Character and Conduct
al-Akhlāq wa'l-Siyar — Character and Conduct
Ibn Ḥazm of Cordoba · Timeless Classics
  1. "himself the anxiety of others being exalted above him in it. Indeed, one seeks pleasures to dispel the worry of missing them, seeks knowledge to dispel the worry of ignorance, and is eager to hear news and converse with people to dispel the worry of isolation and being unaware of the world's conditions. He who ate, ate; and he who drank, drank; and he who married, married; and he who clothed himself, clothed himself; and he who played, played; and he who hoarded, hoarded; and he who rode, rode; and he who walked, walked; and he who took his ease, took his ease — only that they might drive away from themselves the opposites of these acts, and all other cares."

Cover of al-Fawāʾid — Points of Benefit, Volume One
al-Fawāʾid — Points of Benefit, Volume One
Ibn al-Qayyim · Timeless Classics

14th century · Damascus, Syria
Madārij al-Sālikīn — the classical map of the spiritual journey — and a vast body of work on the soul, love, the traps of the ego, and the nature of the heart.
More on Ibn al-Qayyim → · Provenance →

  1. "from this world is not sound except after two correct reflections. The first is a reflection upon this world: how swiftly it passes, perishes, and dissolves; its deficiency and lowliness; the pain of jostling for it and craving it; the bitter draughts, vexations, and miseries it brings; and at the end of it all, departure and severance, followed by regret and sorrow. The one who seeks it is never free of anxiety before he attains it, anxiety while he holds it, and grief and sadness after it slips away. That is the first of the two reflections."

  2. "to Yourself in the knowledge of the unseen with You — that You make the Qur'an the springtime of my heart, the light of my breast, the dispeller of my sorrow, and the departure of my anxiety and grief — but that God removes his anxiety and grief and puts joy in their place." They said: O Messenger of God, shall we not learn these words? He said: "Indeed; whoever hears them ought to learn them." This magnificent hadith comprises matters of divine knowledge, of Tawhid, and of servanthood."

  3. "that You make the Qur'an the springtime of my heart, the light of my breast, the lifting of my sorrow, and the departure of my worry and grief. No one has ever said these words but that God removed his worry and grief and gave him relief in their place. They said: Shall we not learn them, O Messenger of God? He said: Indeed, whoever hears them ought to learn them."

Cover of Volume Three
Volume Three
Ibn al-Qayyim · Madārij al-Sālikīn

14th century · Damascus, Syria
Madārij al-Sālikīn — the classical map of the spiritual journey — and a vast body of work on the soul, love, the traps of the ego, and the nature of the heart.
More on Ibn al-Qayyim → · Provenance →

  1. "or calms it except the meeting with the beloved. This cannot be resisted by patience, as nothing can quell it except the presence of the one loved. Anxiety The Reality of Anxiety Chapter: Anxiety This longing may intensify and become devoid of patience, thus it is called anxiety. The author of "The Stations" referred to it as such and supported it with the verse of اللّٰه, as narrated about His interlocutor مُوسَى, peace be upon him: "And I hastened to You, my Lord, that You might be pleased." As اللّٰه says in سُورَة طه."

  2. "The capacity for endurance cannot repel or resist it. And اللّٰه knows best. Third Degree of Anxiety: Anxiety that Shows No Mercy, Accepts No Limit, and Leaves No One The third degree is anxiety that shows no mercy ever, accepts no limit, and leaves no one. This anxiety has dominance and overpowering because it may arise from witnessing."

Cover of The Disease and The Cure
The Disease and The Cure
Ibn al-Qayyim · Timeless Classics

14th century · Damascus, Syria
Madārij al-Sālikīn — the classical map of the spiritual journey — and a vast body of work on the soul, love, the traps of the ego, and the nature of the heart.
More on Ibn al-Qayyim → · Provenance →

  1. "a grave disease, or inevitably weaken its strength. This leads to the eight afflictions from which the prophet, peace be upon him, sought refuge. Anxiety and sorrow, incapacity and laziness, cowardice and miserliness, overpowering debt, and subjugation by men. Each pair of these afflictions is linked. Anxiety and sorrow are paired because when the heart anticipates its dislike from a future event, it generates anxiety, and when it reflects on a past event, it generates sorrow. Incapacity and laziness are linked. If a person's failure to pursue goodness and success is due to lack of ability, it is incapacity, and if it is due to lack of will,"

Cover of Volume Two
Volume Two
Ibn al-Qayyim · Madārij al-Sālikīn

14th century · Damascus, Syria
Madārij al-Sālikīn — the classical map of the spiritual journey — and a vast body of work on the soul, love, the traps of the ego, and the nature of the heart.
More on Ibn al-Qayyim → · Provenance →

  1. "It is said that those most concerned with the world are the most concerned in the Hereafter, and those least concerned with the world are the least concerned in the Hereafter. Faith in fate and contentment with it removes worry, grief, and sadness from the servant. It was mentioned in the presence of رَابِعَة about a friend of اللّٰه whose sustenance came from the garbage heaps. A man there said, "What harm would it be for him to ask اللّٰه to provide for him from other than this?" She replied, "Be silent, you idle one."

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