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What did al-Nawawi say about guarding the tongue?

The chapters of the Riyāḍ on backbiting, tale-bearing, and idle speech are a sobering audit of what most of us say in a day — and what we would not want read back to us on the Day.

10 passages from 6 books in the library

On guarding the tongue, the cited passages — from al-Ghazali's Evils of the Tongue and related books — warn that speech is where most sins gather: "backbiting, lying, self-praise," gossip, "falsehoods, and similar matters." He calls slander "going about with gossip" a grave affliction, and counsels that even silence in remembrance "from heedlessness is better than moving the tongue" in backbiting a Muslim. The remedy, he writes, lies in combining inner restraint with habit, so that the tongue trained in truth "automatically recalls its habit" and recoils from a lie when it hears one.

Drawn from the classical sources below — in the scholars' own words.

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The classical approach.

These passages are drawn from 6 books by Imam al-Ghazali — part of the classical Sunni tradition that carries over a thousand years of reflection on the Qurʾān, the authentic Sunnah, and the consensus of the early community. Nothing below is a paraphrase. The words are the scholars' own, translated from the original Arabic manuscripts.

Read them closely. If a passage doesn't sit right, open the full book in the library and listen to the chapter around it. Context in the classical tradition is everything.

Cover of Book 35: The Book of Divine Unity and Trust in God
Book 35: The Book of Divine Unity and Trust in God
Imam al-Ghazali · Ihya' 'Ulum al-Din

11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
Reviving the inner life of Islam through the Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm al-Dīn — one of the most influential works ever written in any religious tradition.
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  1. "So neither does his hand resemble hands, nor his pen resemble pens, nor his speech resemble other speech, nor his writing other writings."

Cover of Book 24: Evils of the Tongue
Book 24: Evils of the Tongue
Imam al-Ghazali · Ihya’ ‘Ulum al-Din

11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
Reviving the inner life of Islam through the Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm al-Dīn — one of the most influential works ever written in any religious tradition.
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  1. "fully. The 16th affliction is gossip. Allah Almighty says, A slanderer going about with gossip, and then"

  2. "the tongue from backbiting. Know that the remedy for all evil traits is found in the combination of"

Cover of Book 31: The Book of Repentance
Book 31: The Book of Repentance
Imam al-Ghazali · Ihya’ ‘Ulum al-Din

11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
Reviving the inner life of Islam through the Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm al-Dīn — one of the most influential works ever written in any religious tradition.
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  1. "all. Rather, I say, even seeking forgiveness with the tongue is a good deed, since moving the tongue"

  2. "with his tongue, when he hears a lie from another, his tongue automatically recalls its habit and"

  3. "with it from heedlessness is better than moving the tongue at that time in backbiting a Muslim"

Cover of Book 39: The Book of Contemplation
Book 39: The Book of Contemplation
Imam al-Ghazali · Ihya' 'Ulum al-Din

11th–12th century · Ṭūs, Khurāsān
Reviving the inner life of Islam through the Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm al-Dīn — one of the most influential works ever written in any religious tradition.
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  1. "They should reflect on their tongue, acknowledging its exposure to backbiting, lying, self-praise,"

  2. "The mouth was opened, and within it, the tongue was placed, capable of speech and serving as an"

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